Taking PRIDE in Being the Other

Hey everybody. I’m taking part in One Rainbow Apart for Pride month! If you want to check out the other blogs doing this (and I would definitely recommend that you do) you can do so here    One of the legends of the Changeling is that the fae will steal a child for one reason……

Perception will do wonders for your sex life

(Image Above is of a VERY cute Jade Turtle necklace I got for my Birthday) Heya everyone. I know it’s been a while since I posted anything, but I’m glad that I finally have something to talk about. Well, something other than massive shutdowns, plagues, and the rapidly crumbling sense that an entire country’s populace……

Blogger Love Languages: Let’s start a Conversation

It’s Blogger Love Language month, and I thought I’d take my hand at talking a bit about what I really love about blogging: the comments. It’s kinda a meme nowadays that you should “never read the comments” but it’s something that I usually have to do. The interaction between people about a topic is one……

Kink like Orgasmo, not Endgame

By now, I’m sure everyone has heard something about Avengers: Endgame. It’s literally the biggest movie in theaters right now and almost everyone is talking about it. I can’t go more than a couple of minutes without someone saying something about how they felt about it. (It also makes it hard to go on any……

Hey! Check out where I am!

Photo courtesy of My Controlled Ascent Welcome to Elust 118- The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #119? Start with the……

Bud and Stripteases: What’s Happening to Porn

Okay, so a little bit of history before I get to my point. Bread and Circuses is a term used to describe a kind of political idea that you can keep the masses happy with what you’re doing to them as long as you can distract them and give them something they want. It’s kinda……

Tainted Love : How I Starting Moving Past Old Hurts

Quick Warning: The article below talks a little about manipulation and boundaries. Not a whole lot, but just a heads up. When I was a kid, I found an overripe tomato in the fridge, and ever since then, I can’t stand tomatoes. Something about them always reminds me of feeling queasy from seeing the seeds……

Year in Review

Hey Everybody. It’s been a while since anything went live, so I figured I’d give a quick look over the past year to catch everyone up. The Start of Something New This year was the start of a lot of new projects for me, including this blog! I’d had the idea now and again of……

An Open Letter & Appreciation

I’ve been writing on this blog for half a year and I’m still surprised about random creepy DMs. I mean, I understand that the topic of sex is bound to bring in a whole host of assumptions but this is ridiculous. Every time I see someone post about the random-ass DMs that they get on……

Kink Ettiquette: The Art of the No

Hi, I’m Mr. Promiscuous and I’m a recovering people pleaser. Growing up, I always thought that I needed to make most of the people around me happy so that they’d want me to be around. A combination of general high-school isolation (mostly due to being one of ten black kids) and a really toxic relationship……